Spring ahead, it's about time!

We are about to turn our clocks ahead (on Sunday, March 11th to be exact).

The optimist says, “Finally, longer stretches of sunlight!”

The pessimist says, “We lose an hour of time.”

Everything we do takes time. Yet do we really give ourselves the time to do what we need to do in a given day? Many of us have embraced the mechanics of Outlook calendars to plan our lives. The simplicity of planning our schedules and, oh, those pop-up reminders (!) appear to relieve us from the stress of the day. Yet, they really don’t. 

The myth of electronic calendar tools is that they create efficiency.  Yes, you are expertly planning, but you are not leaving time for the free flow of life – for interaction and collaboration with others. No time is factored in to debrief oneself after a meeting, solve a problem or, most importantly, create a solution.

For the last couple of decades, we have been told that the means of modernization and technology would give us more free time to stop and smell the roses, yet, as I talk to many of my colleagues, it seems that the future we live in now is racing by us at the speed of light – and we are all caught up in it. (Ever wonder why this is an exceptionally bad flu season? Human immunity is outpaced.)  

Electronic calendars control how and when we do things. They are not assisting us in our productivity.

Recently, I worked on a collaborative project with colleagues from different areas of a company. The project had several moving parts. While each of us went around the room sharing our updates and next steps forward for the implementation of the project, there appeared to be a gap of time for completion.  One of the team members asked me how long it would take to meet with the other members of the team who were responsible for implementing the project. I thought for a few moments about his question, and realized I could not answer it with a calculation of minutes or hours.  In today’s work environment, we have become so accustomed to electronic calendars, that we don’t factor in the time to work with others and have discussions.

Many people focus on the completion of their individual tasks, yet do not think to build in the time to interface and collaborate with others to complete a project. Because of this, we rush to meet a last minute deadline.  

Yes, scheduling tools can help you be more productive, but be sure to revisit your calendar often to:

1) Build in time for a break---to think on your own or, collaboratively, with others.

2) Try different planning tools to slow down the chaotic race for completion.

3) Build thoughtful meetings around agendas with a little wiggle room to complete goals.

Your New Year’s Resolution: Commitment

As  we grow ourselves through commitment, we are creating our destiny. Having and keeping commitments make us of greater value to those around us. As an anchor of strong belief, one is able to withstand the storm and still move forward…and move forward in life while guiding others.

Commitment in the workplace is about charting your way up the ranks of life to grow your destiny. It’s about the journey that drives you and will define your career. When you believe in what you are doing, you are self-motivated and take on the responsibility of growing your self. And, as we allow ourselves to think bigger and grow beyond our imagination, that ingenuity inspires and encourages others to do the same.

Commitment to growing oneself and one’s beliefs is not a selfish act, but a community act. The more we are committed to our beliefs, the more we grow our confidence, which in turn gives us the strength to help others and to lead.

Making and fulfilling commitments is what creates integrity within. Pause and reflect on your performance over the last year. How did you do with your past commitments? Taking the time to reflect will ignite the energy to continue honoring a current commitment, as well as bring new ones into focus. 

Why not start with “commitment” as your New Year’s Resolution and make a conscious step forward on the path ahead. Commit to advancing your own journey and see where it will take you—and those around you.  

Power Up Burn Out

Did you walk with a friend this month to relish the change of seasons?

When was the last time you called a friend without making an appointment first?

Have you dined out for a meal—without your phone on the table?

Has technology taken over your work life and your private life?

We are living through something I like to call “the conversion of the evolution of the human being.” Technology is very quickly turning us into a burned out, self-absorbed, anxiety-ridden population.

We must consciously turn it off and hit refresh. Often.

“Without personal meaning, you’ll start to wear down from relentlessly throwing yourself into the churn and pulse of things. You can’t sustain this kind of disconnected, meaningless work for very long.  – Steve Errey, “How to Tell Your Boss Your Completely Overwhelmed,” Fast Company

The more we focus on what makes us human, the more apt we are to create and innovate rather than follow; the better our relationships will be at home and in the workplace.

Better interactions with our colleagues allows for all of us to be human again.

Allow yourself to be you. Be joyful.  Have open dialogue with others. Volunteer, go to a museum, or simply say hello.

What makes us human?

Emotion, empathy, compassion memories, 

human relationships, human connection, kindness and love.